First of all, anyone in a relationship with an a go-go dancer should be mindful about sexually transmitted diseases.
Prostitution (as of 2019) is illegal in Thailand, bars are not obliged to send their employees for testing.
Does your Thai girlfriend or wife have multiple different Facebook profiles?
If so, please read this article and take it seriously.
In order for these romance scams to work, the women typically create and maintain different internet personas.