Dating a guy who lives with his ex

We see each other when we can as we are both busy with 2 jobs. I get along with all of his friends…they actually make me feel special.

Should I have a one-on-one with him about this or keep doing what I’m doing and hope things will change? This should, in no way, diminish the fact that you seem to be very happy with him as a boyfriend.

It just means that it’s entirely possible that this is the only role he wants in your life — the one where he really doesn’t have to compromise all that much.

When I was in my 30’s, newly divorced and dating, I noticed how every man I dated treated my son.

Most of them didn’t pay him too much attention to him.

If he isn’t telling his parents about you, it’s because he knows deep down that you aren’t going to be around long. If he isn’t talking about the future, it’s because he’s not that serious about you.