There’s no need to bring toys and shower them with gifts and over attention. If you’re trying too hard, they’ll know you’re afraid that they will dislike you and ruin your chances with their father.
While your fears are recognized by every other woman in the world dating a divorced man, it’s still not a good idea to be overzealous when meeting his kids. If you meet his parents, his brothers or sisters, his best friend even…be calm and be yourself. Let’s say you and your guy are getting along fantastically! It’s a rare thing indeed when an ex-wife can be nice to a new girlfriend.
In this day and age, it isn’t at all unusual to find yourself dating a man who is divorced.
With people getting married younger (have you ever watched “16 and Pregnant”? This leads to plenty of good-looking, eligible men on the market who have a past. However, there’s often a stigma that comes with the word “divorce”.
It makes you want to squeeze them and go all doe-eyed, doesn’t it? Most of the time, it’s pent up hostility at their parents’ divorce.