My readers are discussing how difficult, painful, and destructive it is to keep hanging on to an affair with a married man.
Or maybe deep down you secretly enjoy the secrecy and lies, dishonesty and pain of having an affair with a married man.
Here’s what one of my readers said about breaking up with the guy she was having an affair with:“I became involved with a married man after my divorce,” says Kay on Why Married Men Cheat – and How to Prevent It.
He doesn’t respect you or his wife, and you no longer respect yourself.
The longer you keep cheating with another woman’s husband, the worse and more degraded you will feel…the harder it’ll be to break up with this married man and heal your broken heart. But the sense of freedom and self-respect you’ll feel after the breakup is empowering.
I admit I miss his company and the way he looked at me and the way he touched me. Looking back I realize how toxic it was to sit at home on holidays while he was with his family, and only see him when he was available.