So what should you do if you believe that this new man is the one you should have married in the first place?Make life easier on you and him both by postponing the relationship until the divorce is finalized.It would be a shame to forfeit your future support on a relationship that may not last.
This will put your boyfriend smack-dab in the middle of your divorce, which is a quick way to put a damper on your new relationship.
You need to be especially careful if you have children from your marriage.
Believe me, he will likely react to the fact that you are dating by making your life hell during the divorce process.
He may seek revenge to compensate for the anger, hurt, and embarrassment that he feels you have caused him.
This can affect the outcome of your divorce as far as spousal support and the eventual property settlement goes.