Questions included whether the respondent could control his or her anger, how they coped with it, and if they assigned blame for becoming angry to their partner.
Further questions focused on communication, including disagreements about relationships with others and with partners.
The findings, however, are specific to Canadian youth, and so they may potentially highlight differences between nations.
The most recent Youth Risk Behavior Survey done by the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, for example, shows that 9.1 percent of girls experience physical dating violence compared with 6.5 percent of boys.
” The responses to that question revealed 5.8 percent of the total number of boys surveyed who did not identify themselves as victims of physical dating violence but had experienced it nonetheless.
Another hidden reason that teenagers don’t tend to report partner violence is that they’ve never been properly taught to recognize it — especially if it’s coming from a girlfriend.“A possible reason it’s still considered socially acceptable for girls — when they get really angry or upset — to lash out physically in ways that we’ve worked really hard as a society to tell boys and young men that they’re not allowed to do so,” Saewyc notes.
“What I can tell you is the boys are not more likely to speak up about their romantic partners, especially girlfriends,” she says.