You feel sad and you share your emotions and feelings with him, and he starts doesn’t hear you and never notices the disappointment and sadness on your face. If not, pinpoint the problem area and make a decision about your course of action.
A woman’s deepest desire is to be listened to and understood. Try praising the times he is engaged and show him how to listen when he needs you to listen. If not, then find a guy that you can imagine a future with. It’s easy to let 2 , 3 4 , 5 years float by only to discover that something is just not okay when you are together.
Yes, it’s true that we show our very best in the beginning but if you always feels that isn’t enough – imagine how you will feel when you relax more in the relationship.
If you feel less than enough for him, it’s time to realize that you needs someone who appreciates who you are. Look for the relationship that appreciates the woman you are. If he doesn’t love you as you are, I promise there is someone that will and the rewards for that kind of relationship are well worth the wait.
If he still isn’t able to really take in what you are saying, you have to realize that you deserve more and will be hurt if this continues. If the thought of a lifelong commitment makes you cringe, you need to look at what the root cause is – why are you dating him in the first place? He maybe just wants a different lifestyle than you. Take a look at what he is telling you he wants in life. If spending time with him exhausts you and you feel as if you want to avoid spending time with him all together – this is a warning sign you are dating the wrong guy. Figure it out now so that you can have the adventurous, fun relationship where you can’t wait to be together. If your boyfriend has no interests or hobbies outside of your relationship, perhaps you are dating the wrong guy. But they can’t stay that way or retreat from participating in life.