There are TONS of illegitimate personals sites that suggest site activity but offer little.rude finder, fb girls, flirt crowd and a ton of others that just look to good to be true usually are.
Moralists are asked to leave this page for the second and last time.
It is a personal business for everybody to have or not to have affairs and we cannot judge other people. Some people just do not want to have anything serious ever. We can survive and lead more or less normal life without love but we are not OK without sex.
All they need is freedom and lack of too close connections with others. Masturbation is the last way out but nothing can substitute a real partner.
Women are especially dependent on sex since their psychological health is at risk in case of too long continence.
Just take a look at some reviews who can you trust and where can you go online to get sex?