Nonverbal communication and dating
I tell my clients to practice this nonverbal trifecta in the mirror and to break up the trifecta into steps, then mash it all together. Related Link: Body Language to Create Instant Attraction 3. Almost no man will approach a big group of women and rarely in America does the woman approach the man.
As the woman you need to separate from the pack and make yourself approachable.
That is, in addition to sending relational messages that communicate about the existing relationship between people, nonverbal cues may also function to bring about a new or different kind of connection or regard.
In support of this, Chartrand and Bargh (1999), for example, found that synchrony of two people’s nonverbal cues can create more liking for one another.
Some of these cues may seem overly simplistic, you may even say “oh come on, give me something I don’t know.” Yes, you may know how to smile, but for how long? Think of it like this, if I were to ask you “how are you” you would probably say “good, and you?