Ask the tuff questions about their personality what they do for a living and where they see their future.
When organising a first date you should always make sure to meet in public for example a cafe, cinema, shopping mall.
Online dating is now widely accepted as a valid, convenient & fun way of meeting like-minded people.
New Zealanders using have found meeting people online is more convenient and comfortable than through 'normal' offline channels such as bars and parties.
The most important advice is to be cautious and never ever send them money.