I'm glad I didn't pay for a full subscription as the site is run by bots. I had guys to inbox me cursing me out and insulting me because I wouldn't go out with them, when I reported the problem to POF the issues were never addressed and these people were still on the site to harass other women and curse them out too. I recommend anyone to go to a more decent and classy dating site because POF is a trashy Low classed site with drug addicts and drunks and lowlifes.You can't even send a message to Marcus, the alleged founder, as he is also a bot. And also POF have a bad habit about monitoring every inch of all your inbox conversations as well as your pictures and they would always send reminders not to say or do this or that or you risk being removed permanently from their site. POF used to be great about a decade ago (I met my wife of 9 years there and went in countless dates with women). I am a 6-7 looking male in my early 40s and I can summarize my experience as: 30% are superficial immature women looking for a Tall Brad Pitt that makes 250k (they stay on the site for AGES waiting, and waiting).What I found was profile after profile of women who simply do not exist. They promise debt relief, or tell you you've won something, or that you're approved for a credit card from "The VISA-Mastercard Company".
Back in early 2006 I started chatting with another POF member.
We mostly kept it epistolary until five or six months later when we finally met face to face.
We met at a Japanese restaurant, ate and talked until they closed.
I must say we hit it off, later closed our POF accounts and got married in a Japanese park the following year.
Today I can truly say we are still married going on eight years in a marvelous and wonderful relationship!