Yes, it's possible to have a good experience trying something new with no verbal communication.
But it's also possible to have a major fail, landing you smack in the middle of a 50 Shades of "OMG, what are you doing?! That's why it's important to talk about boundaries before experimenting in bed, says Carol Queen, Ph.
D., staff sexologist for the online sex toy shop Good Vibrations.
There are three things you can do to help make this happen.
But that scenario doesn't leave room for much excitement. Queen suggests one of two options: Talking to a sex therapist or a coach together, as having a mediator in a safe space can make it easier for some people to open up , are made to be browsed together, giving you spicy ideas and info to boot," Dr. Regardless of what book it is, the two of you should agree to read it, then have an open conversation about the ideas each chapter brings up.